Transgender Jews Seek Safety Amid Trump’s Anti-Trans Policies

For Russel Neiss and his family, relocating from Missouri to Pennsylvania was a decision made out of necessity. After Missouri’s 2023 ban on transgender medical care for minors, Neiss—whose son is transgender—decided it was time to leave a state that threatened his family’s well-being. But finding a new home wasn’t just about safety; it also had to be a place where they could continue practicing Orthodox Judaism without fear of rejection.

In April 2024, the family celebrated their son’s bar mitzvah, an event that also marked their farewell to Missouri. Soon after, they settled in Philadelphia, joining the welcoming congregation of South Philadelphia Shtiebel. For the first time in years, they felt a sense of relief—until January 2025, when Donald Trump was inaugurated as president and began enacting policies that directly threatened transgender rights.

Trump’s Anti-Trans Orders Spark Fear

Within days of returning to the White House, Trump signed executive orders rolling back transgender rights:

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These actions have left many transgender Jews and their families in fear, prompting some to make emergency plans, including packing go-bags and mapping escape routes out of the country.

Jewish LGBTQ+ Advocates Speak Out

Jewish organizations, including Keshet, have condemned the new policies, calling them a “betrayal of the preciousness of life.” Meanwhile, Rabbi Mike Moskowitz of Congregation Beit Simchat Torah shared a message of support:

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Looking for a Safe Future

Some transgender Jews, like Danielle Solzman, are even considering immigrating to Israel, where gender-affirming care is legal and covered by the country’s universal healthcare system.

For Neiss, the situation is deeply troubling. While his son remains safe—for now—he worries about the long-term impact of these policies and the lack of response from mainstream Jewish leaders.

“When you start talking about people as lesser than or inhuman, that’s dangerous,” he said. “The dominant Jewish community has nothing to say on this issue, and that is a huge moral failing.”

As transgender Jews and their families navigate an uncertain future, they continue to find strength in supportive communities, advocacy groups, and their unwavering faith.